Wednesday, 25 April 2012

The Dowry


Since the civilisation takes place, it is been always a tendency of human to acquire more and more in his life. Due to this tendency, he changes marriage (a pure custom) into a curse for bride. In  past the help which was given to bridegroom to make their new life better. Now it became Dowry and a complusion on the family of bride. As per the Newton's 3 law of motion  "Every action has a equal and opposite reaction". As like this where we have developed so much but dowry is also an evil  side of our society. In the dowry family  of bride have to fulfill the requirement  of the family of bridegroom. If the requirement of bridegroom were not fullfiled then the bride has to face the result. Which is mainly not so good. Mainly the result came in three ways. First, their relationship broke before wedding. Second, they devorced after sometime  of their marriage. Third and the worst one is sometime bride illogate with other boy,bridegroom started teasing and torchering the bride, sometime bride committed sucide and sometime bride was killed.

Now, what do you think? Are we living in a good society and feeling secure. I think the answer is almost no.
And we also can't say that the name of dowry is only use by illiterate people. The most recent incident of dowry is in our India's capital Delhi done by a well educated family. Our government enforced many laws to abolish dowry and to save bride. Sometime these laws helps us so much while sometime these laws are misused by women herself to con some big personalities.

So at last according to me, we shouldn't tried to abolish dowry. But we have to this greed of humen should be routed out  from our society.

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