Since
the civilisation takes place, it is been always a tendency of human to acquire
more and more in his life. Due to this tendency, he changes marriage (a pure
custom) into a curse for bride. In past
the help which was given to bridegroom to make their new life better. Now it
became Dowry and a complusion on the family of bride. As per the Newton's 3 law
of motion "Every action has a equal
and opposite reaction". As like this where we have developed so much but
dowry is also an evil side of our
society. In the dowry family of bride
have to fulfill the requirement of the
family of bridegroom. If the requirement of bridegroom were not fullfiled then
the bride has to face the result. Which is mainly not so good. Mainly the
result came in three ways. First, their relationship broke before wedding.
Second, they devorced after sometime of
their marriage. Third and the worst one is sometime bride illogate with other
boy,bridegroom started teasing and torchering the bride, sometime bride
committed sucide and sometime bride was killed.
Now, what do you
think? Are we living in a good society and feeling secure. I think the answer
is almost no.
And we also can't say
that the name of dowry is only use by illiterate people. The most recent
incident of dowry is in our India's capital Delhi done by a well educated
family. Our government enforced many laws to abolish dowry and to save bride.
Sometime these laws helps us so much while sometime these laws are misused by
women herself to con some big personalities.
So at last according
to me, we shouldn't tried to abolish dowry. But we have to this greed of humen
should be routed out from our society.
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